Reflections from KIWANIS LET’s PLAY Workshop

Gardening is one of the things I do to relieve stress, so I made a flower.,wrote Sophia after playing with large pieces of colorful fabric and black plastic shavings in a Kiwanis LET’s PLAY workshop. It happened at the Florida Kiwanis District Annual Convention on August 9, 2025. Following are photos and reflections that help to convey the value and power of play in the lives of young children and the adults who serve them.

Hands-on play with discarded materials collected from local businesses, such as fabric and plastic shavings, is a surprisingly relaxing and enjoyable form of spontaneous creative self expression, I am amazed at the aesthetic appeal this colorful flower evokes in me. I appreciate the emotional connection Sophia makes between her play and the gardening she enjoys.

Play is a source of creative energy! Play is a positive force and safe context for constructing meaningful self-knowledge! Play is a way of revitalizing the human spirit across the whole, blooming human life-cycle!!!

“Started out with wood blocks as a base and put on a foam “roof” to build a sort of house structure. Added some strips of cloth and yarn as softer materials to create a decorative effect. Added some small cylinders to look like a bowling alley. The combination of the tactile feel and the soft music created a sense of relaxation, similar to yoga meditation.”

As described by David in his journal, transforming thought into an aesthetically pleasing visual expression, and then using language to describe meaning and value, is an example of higher-order creative thinking, which results in a sense of relaxation, “similar to yoga meditation”.

Play’s intrinsic qualities include spontaneity of the spirit, thinking deeply, feeling intensely, and building a trust in one’s intuitive self. 

Joel was sitting beside his friend David and began building a structure with little wooden blocks. You can see Joel’s hands in the background of the above photo. The experience brought back a powerful memory from a long time ago.

This experience reminded me of 17 years ago. Two months after I joined Kiwanis making a new garden of flowers being planted. The elementary school across the street sent their students over and had them plant different types of flowers with us. It really touched me when the students asked if they could help or show them how to plant them,  The experience really touched me that this is what Kiwanis really is, helping children and the community.

Play is a source of creativity and happy thoughts that arise spontaneously within us as reminders of earlier joyful encounters. Play is a source of energy for rekindling love, passion, and relationships with other people. These feelings are not just isolated to the play space but also move forward and influence the player beyond the play space into their realities.

For Channon, “This gave me the experience to create my own space, free of clutter, designed for me. A place to go to be alone to escape from all the noise and be at peace. A place of girly colors that make me feel good! It’s symmetrical. I like things to match and be orderly – neat. Feels calm, pretty!

Play is the opportunity to imagine and create, to be free! In those playful moments of joyful authentic sensory engagement. We spontaneously invent and discover inspiring new possibilities for feeling and expressing joy with sense of control in our lives.!

Experiences within the play space elicit feelings of protectiveness, a yearning to return, and a desire for further exploration of higher levels of understanding and self-awareness.

In his jouraling Jerry wrote “I have an engineering, problem-solving, mind that is usually thinking about 1 million different things at once. This experience allowed me to focus on a single objective, and forget for a moment, all the other things on my mind, I chose to build as I like to think of how things are put together into a system, and how they interact with each other.

Play with three-dimensional materials enhances our capacity to focus, to pay attention, and engage in creative contemplation, and dynamic three-dimentional construction. Play’s intrinsic qualities include spontaneity of the spirit, thinking deeply, feeling intensely, and building trust in one’s intuitive self. 

Pat defines his play experience as,”Creating something out of anything! Working with bits and pieces to make art, is quite relaxing, especially the 60 second pause, sticks, fabric, yarn, and caps, wood blocks.” 

Fiddling with open-ended objects calms the mind and relaxes the body. It is a way of reducing stress and anxiety, Play and art making reconnect us with a sense of creative purpose, competence, and wisdom. 

Janet played with large colorful shapes of foam and wrote, “I allowed the materials to dictate what I wanted to build. It became a vision and using random shapes made it seem as if it were a cartoon playing out in my mind. Very creative imagery, very calming.

Play allows the mind to act out creative three-dimensional images, ideas. and stories in a way that bring awareness and delight to us, and strengthens our creative capacities to render them real.

Ron wrote, “I wanted to build a structure that was pleasing to the eye yet durable. My stairs are inverted for the entry to cause a person to work to get, but after entry, to be a place of relaxation.

To create something pleasing to the eye, durable, and a place of relaxation is what this play gifts to us. We see and feel in the play and what we make, the meaning we value and create in our lives.

Play for Walter was, “Relief of stress, slowed down fast pace of day, allowed focus on one thing, Made me think of something other than what I had been thinking of earlier.

The physical, sensory influence of self active play with three-dimensional, open-ended materials in many various forms brings us into the present moment. In this way, silent, solitary play is an open-eyed, hands-on form of meditation, a contemplative mindfulness practice involving self-recognition.

Melissa shares with us a journalized memory of her play, “We were chatting during the workshop today about libraries. I started creating an enormous bookshelf that morphed into the main structure of the library. I made tables, and chairs, a rug with flex seating and imagined kids and adults alike coming to the library to experience a larger-than-life book. Hopefully, they are transported to a happy place.

Do you see the enormous bookshelf with rows of books and colorful covers? Driftwood, bits of fabric, and wooden blocks give form to earlier conversation leading to creative self expression. The science of play and aesthetics of art appear spontaneously in imaginative play as simple arrangements, compositions seemingly, effortlessly rendered, yet contain and reveal, to ourselves and others, the content of our experience.

Winnie shares her thoughts, “I began with thoughts of an outside stage but it changed to more traditional with people in acting groups. The driftwood reflected the primitive nature of the environment – purple people, the actors.

In Winnie’s comments, as well as in all the other photo stories in this writing, there is evidence of unique, creative, imaginative thinking and storytelling with personal meaning. This is literacy being made in the making and doing of play. Play is a form of communication that reveals the science and art of play as it happens with each participant.

Denwood journaled, “Thought I would attempt to mix materials to build a kind of nonsense structure, testing different “building blocks” while keeping the structure from toppling. Also attempted to incorporate a variety of materials.

Denwood’s “sort of nonsense structure”, reminds me of the cantilevered architecture of “Fallingwater”, a home designed by Frank Lloyd Wright that sits partly over a waterfall. Seeing these play images and comments from Kiwanis friends inspires me. I feel interested and connected with each of these little stories. This is what happens when children play and share their stories about what make and how they feel, There is power and delight in the freedom of these simple acts of self discovery. It’s a way of building a healthy community!

 There are many more stories to be told. Every community benefits from play! Every community has reusable resources that can be collected and reused to enrich play and storytelling in the lives of both young children and adults. I am grateful to the Kiwanis Children’s Fund, the Florida Kiwanis Foundation, the Wil and Rachel Blechman Fund, Florida Kiwanis Clubs, the Florida Association for the Education of Young Children Play Chapter, and a growing network of partnerships with Florida manufacturers and businesses for supporting play and leading the way!

Kiwanis CKI Leader

To be creatively engaged in playing and building structures is a unique and enjoyable experience for members of Kiwanis CKI, Key Club, and Kiwanis Clubs. Really for anyone. Whatever the age, playing with a unique array of unusual, three-dimensional, open-ended materials stimulates curiosity, creative expression, and communication. Self Active Play is a sensory mindfulness practice that sparks playfulness, optimism, and the spirit of hope and well-being.

Aladdin: To Play is to Create!

Enjoy this extraordinary moment at the FLAEYC PLAY Space with Meralis Acevedo, Director, Owner and VPK Teacher, at Little Lords and Ladies Academy. After playing silently by herself with open-ended materials, Meralis shares her experience with spontaneity, expressed joy, and remarkable wisdom. 

In 1922 at Princeton University, Albert Einstein said, “The supreme act of the teacher is to awaken joy in creative expression.” In this case, the interaction with materials is the “teacher”. This brief video touches my heart. In the play and comments of Meralis, we realize the value of play and reflection. What do you see, hear, and feel as you view this vignette?

JASMINE & the Fishing Net

On February 25, 2023, Jasmine participated in a PLAY Workshop at the Manatee Conference on Young Children. Following 15 minutes of silent, solitary self active play, Jasmine came up to me and told me with heartfelt emotion, “This was a nice experiment where I was able to create something out of tassels. A pattern came into my head. When I finish it looked like a fishing net. It brought me a memory of when I went fishing with my family.”

I was touched by Jasmin’s expressed sentiment and the emotional connection she made between her play and her earlier experience of fishing with her family. I see this as an illustration of Self Active Play Principle #2: Hands-on play and art making with open-ended materials reconnect the individual with earlier stages of human development, spontaneously balancing and strengthening hope, will, purpose. competence, fidelity, love, care, and wisdom.

The journal comments of each player reflects the essential personal meaning and value of their experience to them.

Keep in mind what Tom Henricks says about play with objects. “Our play is not merely interaction with external objects, it is interaction with our own sometimes deeply cherished visions. In brief, our play with objects is inevitably self-play.” (Henricks, T., 2015, Play and the Human Condition, p82)

Heather writes: “I chose the picture frame pieces.  While I worked, I started putting the different pieces together to form shapes. As I listened to the music. I just really focused on where the pieces fit and I ended up making a large golden star.  And I then created several small structures that were underneath the star. They started out as an Asian home or temple, then it transformed into the Nativity scene. Finally, it became a garden with a home and a gazebo. I feel very relaxed after the play session is over.”

 “The moment I saw the driftwood I knew it would be my first choice. I envisioned some type of structure before I knew the exact pieces I would have to use. Getting the abstract pieces to fit the way I wanted initially was harder than I anticipated, but I enjoyed the trial and error that led me to bringing my vision to life. I also loved getting to know each piece as they were so unique. Their weight was distributed differently and each laid comfortably in its own way. The entire experience was relaxing  and peaceful.”

The silent, solitary play is a mindfulness practice, a meditation involving creative contemplation. Teachers view it as a form of Self-care.

Abigail shared: “As a preschool school, teacher and mother of young children, six and seven, it was very nice to enjoy quiet time to create something of my own for no other reason than relaxation and pleasure. I also struggle with anxiety and the prompt of being silent, and having been given tools to play with, without any sort of direction was very freeing, it allowed me to relax and clear my head in an otherwise very busy life. Thank you!

To My Surprise & Delight

Sketches of new paintings arise to my surprise!

In just a few moments of cutting strips of paper, then with pen and color pencils I made little doodlings and stuck them between wooden blocks,….spontaneous freely formed open compositions that sent my spirit soaring! It was a wonderful simple, powerful, discovery I so enjoyed while playing for a moment at the Florida Kiwanis Foundation “Play with Purpose” Virtual Convention this past Saturday. All to my delight and surprise!

Slowing Down, Attaining Calm

Silent, solitary self active play is a sure way of slowing down, focusing the mind, and attaining calm. Exploring and arranging an array of open-ended materials induces a state of relaxing, creative contemplation. In the home or classroom, as a child or adult, this process of attaining calm is rooted in the practice of self active play.

Ellen Grogan, a Pre-K teacher with 26 years of professional practice writes, “After seeing how much the children enjoyed quiet solitary play, it seems to me that facilitating an opportunity for them to practice the process involved should be added to our list of things to do”

Awakening creativity, empowering self-discovery, and inspiring optimism are healing outcomes that arise spontaneously during silent, solitary self active play. Slowing down and attaining calm is a way regaining control, balance and inner peace.

Learn more in Self Active Play, a new book on Amazon.

Exciting the Art Spirit: Play with Paints

One of my most treasured play workshops is with tempera paints. Love and creative expression abound spontaneously! Here is one I presented with the staff of the Temple Beth Shalom early childhood program in Needham, Massachusetts. This video shows the wonder and wisdom of silent solo self active play with tempera paints. Participants explore with freedom, self-expression as meaning making followed by reflection. Images portray an array of individual initiative, exploratory styles, and appreciation of the beauty and diversity arising spontaneously during artful play moments. (Read the Art Spirit by Robert Henri, 1923) (Background music by Keith Jarrett – I Got It Bad and That Ain’t Good)

ZOOM Play Experience #1

On August 1, 2020 I presented a Hands-on Virtual ZOOM play workshop. People chose their own open-ended materials, played with them during the session, journaled, shared images, and told stories about their experience.

Here are three journal reflections shared by participants.

Cortland Mazzotta

I play with my kids that I work with a lot so it’s interesting and so I had an impulse in the beginning to kind of turn off my camera. Oh, this is kind of private but I wanted to get out of my comfort zone and put myself in their shoes of having an adults watch you play. You know and whatever that means and feel that sense of maybe judgement and wanting to somehow measure up even though it’s play. 

So, it’s just really interesting to perceive even though I enjoy playing, that sense of like, Oh, I have eyes on me and what am I going to do? Is this going to measure up, even though I know there is no wrong way to do it? I know that. So that was really interesting way to get into their shoes and how they might feel a little anxious having to play in front of an adult they don’t really know. 

OUTCOME: This play experience Informs and sharpens the professional practice of the participants.

Terri Alexander-Cox

We just got back from being in the mountains for 10 days so we were surrounded by the wood and beauty. I imagined fairies everywhere. So, we collected materials and I just made fairy things. I made a fairy ring, I had mica, I made a little swing and I stuck it in a flowerpot. The thing that was really evocative for me was just this morning I found these little pods and I remembered when I was a child, I would get strips of leaves off mimosa trees and make little play food. And then also I made a fairy wheelbarrow, so I put them in my fairy wheelbarrow. It just brought up a lot of memories and it also kept the feeling of being in the woods with me.

OUTCOME: This play experience rekindles memories of earlier times and nourishes the participant’s sense of peacefulness and gratitude. 

Alex Yang, Project Liaison 

Play advocate and trainer 

Orange County Department of Education, California 

I was anticipating this morning because I knew it would be a nice moment to be calm and reflect before I started my day. As I was playing, I realized its been a while that I actually took some time and play on my own. Like I’ll sit and play with my kid and I’ll talk with teachers and other coaches about play but to actually be lost in the moment was a nice reflection to have. I then noticed I was playing and the time went by pretty quick, less than 10 minutes. It seemed like 2 minutes. It was just nice to be able to play quietly before the craziness approaches.  I thought it was nice to be able to hear music, to get lost in time and just relax. 

OUTCOME: This play experience quiets the mind and helps to prepare us for approaching craziness.

Lynn Hartle, Ph.D Professor of Education  

Penn State Univ, Brandwine

NAEYC Play, Policy and Practice Interest forum Liaison, 

Former PPP Connections Managing Editor https://pppconnections.wordpress.com/

The complexity of the world

& how pieces fit together

Some standing up

Some on their side

Some flat 

Some darker

Some lighter

& yet together 

This complex structure works 

If people learn to pay attention through play

OUTCOME: This play experience summons creative expression that reveals complexities and ways of overcoming impediment.

Children, teachers and parents are facing huge demanding transitions going back to school and adjusting emotionally to troubling uncertainty that exists in the world today. Use silent, solo self active play as a medium for generating creativity and insight, while relaxing and relieving associated stress and anxiety. This is especially helpful as an instructional play practice with young children. (To view Zoom recordings visit Walter Drew YouTube Chanel)

A Small Accomplishment that Means So Much to Me.

This is it right now. Sitting here writing a few thoughts that you might appreciate, a small accomplishment that means so much to me. Several days ago my wife Kitty and I went to Lowes for some light bulbs and a few two by fours. I wanted to make a frame for a painting I have in mind. I thought kiln dried two by fours would work best. But decided to use lighter and less expensive two by threes instead. I cut, sanded and assembled three frames 30 x 45 inches. I stapled canvas to the frames, next the gesso. A small accomplishment that means so much. Now to draw and paint and play with circles, color, form and composition in search of meaning. A small accomplishment that means so much to me,….to wonder, explore, discover, create.